Apparently im being evicted. what can i do?

i use live in california with my husband because he is in the navy. when he got deployed and because of health and family issues i went to stay with my mom in pa. before i left i let my property manager know i was leaving and that i would call to check up on my apartment. since being in pa i have call several times after paying rent to check up on things and always gotten a everything is ok and up to date. now last month i payed rent and went about life as usual except i didn't call that day to check if everything was in good standing but the next day i called and got the ok that everything was fine which was around the first of the month, around the 15th i called because i heard that there was a storm that had passed through town and wanted to make sure my place was still ok. i called and was told that the place is fine and everything was good but my payment for rent had been returned and that if i was to do anything about it i should have paid by noon that day.i told them i was unaware of a returned payment and no one told me about not receiving rent every time i called that month and that them money was taken out of my account but if there was a problem i could pay them now. they told me to try and see if it goes through so i did and called them back to let them know and when i got someone on the phone they told me that they reversed the payment and it was too late and that was it. panicked and upset i asked to speak to someone higher up and they gave me a number to a guy named mark. for the next few days i called mark he told me he would try to help but that was the last time i got a hold of him cause he never answers his phone. so since i spoke to the rental office it had been about a week i called to let them know i called mark and happened but they just told me they already started the eviction process when i protested shouldn't i have received a letter or at least a phone call to let me know all they said is it already started. i gave them my mothers address and number. and still nothing ive called since and they tell me nothing and the last time i called which was yesterday they told me my lock out date was last thursday. once again i told them no one told about any of this and they just said call tomorrow cause that's when the manger would be in. so here i am today upset and unsure. what can i do? will i really be evicted even though i received no notice of this. can they really lock me out? cause our lease is up on the 4th and i just want my stuff cause my hubby is being station in va so were moving. if all of this is ok can i at least have more time to get my things because like i stated earlier im in pa. and the apartment is in ca. i can't just leave on a whim because my daughter is here with me and id need to have someone watch her while i was away and my mother works alot. so what can i do? please help thanks